Running into the same old, recurring problems in your marriage – a poor attitude, hurtful words, trouble with an addiction, road-blocks in communication? Come up with a plan! Identify the problem and decide what the course of action for each spouse will be the next time the problem happens. Go seek counseling, talk with a pastor or a licensed counselor. Maybe seek out a couple who has been married for a while and see what they do to help solve their problems. The goal isn’t to become perfect, but to find a healthy way of dealing with problem when they arise, and to see those problems improve over time. You can do it. It takes work, but if you want your marriage to work, you will do it.