Rely on each other’s strengths. One partner should not have to pull all the weight, but sometimes one does pull more weight than the other. Allow your spouse to be strong for you. I always find that when I am weak, my husband is strong and when he is weak I am stronger. You need that balance in your relationship. You should be prayer for your spouse and they should be prayer for you.
If one of you is better with bills, then let them handle the bills and so one. You are a partnership and working with each other’s strengths with make your marriage run much smoother!